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Rissy/TNT Correspondence | ~Lunchmeats |
Screenshots With Timestamps and Commentary | ~Fossiltender |
An Open Letter to a Transphobia-Aligned TNT | ~Durian |
TNT Warnings | ~Sylvitri |
The change of the GenDisc/GenNeoDisc board | ~hesonnite | I cancelled premium! Banner Graphic | ~Lazuuly |
Rule 5 Is No Longer Valid | ~Bonelet |
The Virha Situation + Petition | ~Tricksyie |
Pride Resources | |
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LGBT+ adoptables and pixels | ![]() |
Gender Flags for User/Pet Lookups | ~Kyriient |
Trans Rights Blumaroo Random Event | ~OrianaTheIbex |
NeoPride Graphics | ![]() |
Sunnyneo Pride Graphics | https://www.sunnyneo.com/pridegraphics.php |
Non Binary Pride Graphics Directory | ~Frienby |
More Amazing Pride Graphics |
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Pride Themed Signatures |
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Other Resources | |
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Install Neoboard Enhancement Script Suite | ![]() |
Art | |
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Cute Storytelling Contest Story About Trans Characters |
Issue 941 |
NT comic - Changing Colors by artbeet | Issue 912 |
From Scytharia to TNT | ~Scytharia |
❝I would strongly encourage that the team reaches out to LGBTQIA+ and specifically trans-led collectives to receive in-depth training on how to recognize anti-trans rhetoric, identify and dismantle transphobic and transmisogynistic biases, and work to create a safe space for all players. Only after this can the harm that occurred be corrected and effectively addressed to restore the trust and good faith between players and the Neopets support & moderation teams.
These steps cannot be overlooked when creating a space that fosters so many trans community members, who are greatly at risk to receive harassment and experience violence. The 0nline vitriol has ramped up so greatly since 2022, and it requires great effort to combat the transphobia that all people globally learn unconsciously.
Making a public statement backed by specific actions to repair harm about Neopets' commitment to stop silencing trans players, take immediate action against players who share harmful rhetoric, and take any additional steps needed to create a safe place for players of all gender identities is necessary.❞ - @funnysaurus in their ticket to TNT
❝I need to see:
* ALL of the moderation team + support team members taking part in training to combat transphobia internally & on-site
* timely, appropriate action (i.e. freezing with no chance of account return) taken against players who share violent rhetoric
* restoration of all accounts and account abilities (reversing silences) of players that were frozen/silenced for speaking out
* clear, explicit rules against sharing of harmful rhetoric WITHOUT demonizing folks for defending groups
* clear communication from TNT about not 'both-sidesing' harmful rhetoric or granting -isms and -phobias ANY sort of ideological legitimacy
* a public statement + apology for how this was and has been handled, and genuine repair of harm
so the terms 'transphobia/c' or 'racist/m' shouldn't be banned, and calling out harmful behavior/rhetoric should NOT be recognized as 'bullying' or 'harassment
and they should commit to actually removing slurs onsite_ - @funnysaurus
❝Dogwhistles only fit 'other' right now, and wouldn't be surprised if that helps it get forgotten easily❞ -@_dragon_legacy
❝Restricting the boards to be neopets-related only is punishing innocent users who just come on here to socialize in what is, at least comparatively, a much safer space than most of the 0nline world❞ - @quartzissosorry
❝Updated support type may be better off being phrased as the more broad ❝Discrimination/Hate Speech❞? I feel as though 'Harmful Views' could be spun back by those looking to target trans users as I've already seen several of them trying to make some argument that being trans is 'actually harming ME you know :( hence my reluctance to call it that.❞ - @kath460
❝Their language needs to be made more explicit and clear. the whole ❝difference of beliefs❞ only invites bad-faith arguments just like we saw on here over the last number of days❞ - @rissy123
❝No more contradictions and conflicting information when asked the same question or tickets are passed between multiple people❞ - @jackallantern
❝Also define what transphobia is for the members of tnt who are reading
1) deliberately referring to a user by the wrong gender, pronoun, or name
2) propagating ideas about transgender people being mentally ill, confused, or brainwashed.
3) the obvious derogatory words (woke liberal, snowflake, the t slur)
4) notions of ❝woke transgender ideology❞ being propagated by governments
I can keep going but I think u get my point. this stuff has to be clearly stated or else they will continue acting obtuse.❞ - @smallbunnies
❝We desperately need a more direct line to provide feedback, other than the ticketing system. Between Alice W and Jessie J, they are clearly too swamped as it is to be the sole people receiving and responding to complaints and suggestions. If they're promising to keep our feedback into account, we need to know that someone is actually reading the concerns that we're sending, not just skimming it over, replying ❝we're forwarding this to the right department for review,❞ and then we never hear anything again. We need real responses from these departments.❞ - @quartzissosorry
❝Also, I always ask for this, but more diversity in moderators! Are there even any queer mods?? I'm sure a more diverse staff would lead to more comprehensive understanding of their diverse player base.❞ - @teabloom
❝I agree with teabloom that they should have a more diverse staff, including a more diverse moderation team. This includes people of color, trans people, people with disabilities, etc. A lot of TNT's mistakes come from lack of knowledge on differing backgrounds. A more diverse team would really help.❞ - @paperclipss1
❝I also think tnt owes y'all a timeline for how they're going to accomplish everything they set out to do in their statement. The ❝soon❞ on the FAQ is entirely too vague for a website that couldn't even complete their first quarter road map.❞ - @hectic_haley
❝The boards need to function better. We should be able to block, delete and edit. The internet is forever so I assume TNT should still have access to original posts even if a bad actor deleted problematic posts. The delete function or edit would come in handy for simple mistakes/spelling errors etc.❞ - @95problems
❝I also think what should be added, correct me if i'm wrong and this is just on a different page, is a section emphasizing how important a safe space for transgender youth is. people like to say ❝this is just a kids site, get politics off of here❞ but in reality, no, we MUST continue to talk about our own identities and advocating for one another! trans youth are one of the highest at-risk populations and they NEED and DESERVE a safe space like neo
I know that most of us are adults on here, but until neo updates their board policy to match our actual ages (18+), it's incredibly important that a site like neo (who claims they advocate and support the LGBTQ userbase) actually does the work to make it a safe space for anyone who happens to be under 18 and comes on here ❤❞ - @pikachu193
If I've quoted you and you're not okay with that, let me know and I'll fix it immediately.
Change General Neopets Discussion back to General Discussion
week 11 of asking tnt for better moderation
Continuing to contact someone after they've blocked you goes against the Neopets Terms of Service and community guidelines. We know most players don't intend to cause harm, but we want to gently remind you that this kind of behavior isn't appropriate on the site.
If the behavior continues, we may need to take further action, which could include a formal warning, a temporary silence, or—if necessary—a permanent account freeze. We truly hope it doesn't come to that. We appreciate your understanding and ask that you help us keep Neopets a respectful and welcoming place for everyone.When the original poster of the board told the named users to stop interacting, other people also commenting on the board were stumped as no one was being confrontational or inciting any kind of conflict. One of the users named by OP even mentioning that OP hadn't told them not to interact before. It appears that all three users were reported by OP after the OP made the aforementioned post, which led to them receiving the warning.
Users replied to OP's post by questioning why they weren't allowed to post on their board, while others made jokes around OP's decision of informing different users that they weren't allowed to post on their board.
The conversation eventually turned into a general discussion about other topics and the exchange of links to humorous images hosted by Neopets. Later that day, posts began being removed by moderation, and the same warning was neomailed to various users.
Players were unaware at the time that such a rule or guideline existed about not interacting with blocked players, nor of the consequences of not complying with this apparent rule. While said rule or guideline has not been fully implemented via the Site Rules or Guidelines page, this rule about not contacting blocked users does not appear to apply to all users. TNT appears to be selectively enforcing this rule.
On another board created by a trans woman, a user she had previously blocked for harassment posted multiple times on the board even after OP asked the other user to leave the thread and stop posting. Reports were filed, but it took almost 7 hours for the user's posts to be removed.
The first post in the thread continues from the title saying "...promise to do better by your trans community, change absolutely nothing, show zero actionable steps and then release a bunch of items that profit off of Harry Potter - a series written by a woman that is directly responsible for funding anti-trans laws in the UK. This is why we didn't believe you. Do better."
The thread derailed into a discussion between trans users and their allies against the usual harassers and HP fans regarding the release of items referencing the author's works. It was amidst this debate that Lily made a couple of posts and engaged with two users:Lily: Right now, we're updating three major areas: Site Rules, Moderation Policy and Chat Rules. The site rules and moderation policy have been around for decades without real updates, so I totally get why things feel outdated and confusing now. Since they need a full overhaul, we're working on updating everything together. Not just the LGBTQIA+ related sections. That's why it's taking a little longer!
USER1: hi tnt lily is there a chance the items can be pulled to actually improve how safe LGBTQIA+ people feel on the site?
Lily: We're putting a lot of care and thought before this happens: research, benchmarking against other gaming standards, focus groups, community surveys, and making sure everything lines up with legal requirements etc. As for the Neoboard Chat Rules, we actually don't have an official set yet besides information posted here and there on past editorials.
USER2: @tnt_lily Can you please tell the content team that items referencing HP are not a good idea if you support the trans community? We're talking about the upcoming lupe day capsule items
Lily: ©USER1 - Yes absolutely! We're hoping to send a community survey like how we've done in past years & dedicate a LGBTQIA+ section. So, all players will have a chance to give their thoughts!
USER1: @tnt lily does this mean the lupe day items will be put on pause until the survey is complete? there is potential for people creating multiple platforms in bad faith to boost anti-LGBT+ views/silence LGBTQIA+ voices, is there a way to have the survey more secure?
Lily: Updated Site Rules are already in motion and we hope to share that with you guys first! Just a reminder to keep things respectful when we're chatting on the boards. Let's avoid calling anyone out and keep the focus on the topic, not the person.
Lily: ©USER2 - I'll bring this up to the team
Lily: Enjoy your weekend everyone! Don't spend it arguing lol
Following this announcement, users responded in two ways: gratitude toward Lily for communicating with the user base, and skepticism from those still waiting to see real changes.
• Reviewing and updating our moderation policies
• Providing clearer chat guidelines
• Retraining our moderation team
• Ensuring consistent enforcement
• Gathering community feedback on potential rule updates
In the meantime, they urge users to consult the site's FAQ, which was written by taking unimplemented chat rules announced in a editorial of the Neopian Times.
A user sent a ticket inquiring about this, and the reply they got from support explained that the change was made to ❝combat further instances of harassment on the General Discussion boards❞. Players opined this wouldn't help improve the situation and expressed their discontent about being denied a space where they could discuss non-Neopet related issues.
After a few days conflicting information appeared indicating that the renaming of GenDisc was planned prior to the moderation issues being known, leaving players unsure about the true intention behind the change.
TNT still hasn't released a statement or commented about the reason this change was needed.